Redefining MommyhoodJourney of a mom whose son is overcoming hypotonia

Becoming friends with moms with “normal” kids can be challenging. I became friends with a mom who has a child around the same age as Luke about 8 months ago. We met up for playdates and even talked about getting our husbands together one weekend. It seemed like after time went on and her child’s gross motor skills progressed on schedule, but Luke’s did not, we quit hearing from her. I’ve tried to get together with them a few times lately, but it never seems to happen. I’m a paranoid person sometimes, so of course now I’m wondering “did I do something to make her not like me, or is it because Luke can’t keep up with her child?”

It’s just sad to think that someone would be that shallow. All children deserve the chance to interact with other children their age, even if they aren’t on the same developmental level. If her child didn’t seem to be on the same cognitive level as Luke, I wouldn’t use that as a reason not to let them play together!

No mom wants to admit that their child has “special needs”, but hypotonia and gross motor delays do present their own set of special issues. Making friends is just one example.