I haven’t had the mental capacity to sit down and update my blog. I’ve had a migraine most of the week from dealing with the insurance company, Early Steps, therapists, and doctors.
I had originally planned to contact our Early Steps coordinator to find out when our therapist is coming back from maternity leave and to see if we could get some temporary therapy until then. I called her on Monday and she was to get back with me the next day. Luke and I went to our mommy & me class on Tuesday and I happened to overhear one of the other moms talking about her son getting physical therapy. I asked her if he was also going through Early Steps. She told me that they tried to go through Easter Seals, but their wait was too long. They ended up getting a referral for PT from their pediatrician and went to a local out patient rehab to get him PT twice a week. This got me thinking: “why isn’t Luke getting PT twice a week?”. Our coordinator mentioned asking our insurance company if any out patient rehab places were covered and we could then use them until our regular PT comes back. But, I got thinking about it and decided that our insurance company would probably cover an additional day, outside of dealing with Early Steps.
This is where the battle began. I talked to our insurance company three different times. They all informed me of the same thing, we could do any combination of therapy, up to $2500 per year. Right now, Early Steps does not get paid by our insurance because the PT is “out of network”. The charges are being applied to our deductible, but once that is met, the insurance co. will start paying Early Steps. If we decide to use another out patient PT that is “in network”, those charges would go toward the $2500. So, after many questions and a migraine, the insurance company basically said “Yes, you can do both as long as it doesn’t go over the $2500 maximum”. Sounds simple enough right??
Now enter the Early Steps coordinator. I told her of my new idea, that I want to do an additional day of therapy outside of them, through our insurance. She informed me that if we do that, they will no longer cover for us to use their PT. This didn’t make any sense to me, since our insurance claims it can be done. As long as everyone is getting paid the way they should, there shouldn’t be a problem, right? I thought the main goal here is to help children, not get wrapped up in red tape?!?!
So, where we are right now is to try an experiment of sorts. We went to an out patient rehab today for an evaluation and we will start therapy with them next week. We are also supposed to be seeing our other PT while she is still on maternity leave. We will be meeting her probably at her house though until mid October. We are going to let both places submit their claims to our insurance and wait and see what happens.
The kind of shocking part is, after discussing this with multiple people, we are apparently the first parents to ever do this. Maybe I’m being the pushy, neurotic mother, but I am just trying to get my son caught up to where he should be, especially after so many breaks in our therapy up until this point. My goal was to get him walking by his second birthday, but I don’t think that is going to happen now. I should have sought this alternative out sooner, but having never gone through this messed up process before, I just didn’t know any better. I assumed that the state was doing everything they could to help my son. No one, including the doctors we have seen, has ever said “oh, maybe you should try to squeeze in some extra therapy to give him that extra boost.”
I hope others will read this and maybe have a “eureka” moment and learn from our mistakes, journey etc.